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MANAGER'S TOOLBOX: Orientation for New Employees

Another true story ..... , from Dr. De Mars
"I attended a very good, private college at 16 years old. The day before classes started, the Resident Advisor in my dormitory stopped by to talk with me. He explained the dorm rules, showed me where to find the showers, gave me a map of the campus and so on. Then he said to me the same thing he said to every freshman, There's something very important you need to know. You were probably number one in your class in high school. Tomorrow, you will be in a Calculus class with 150 freshman, probably 25 of them number one in their class all through high school and 24 of you are not going to be first in your class. Some of you are going to get a 'C' for the first time in your life. I just want you to know that it is going to happen to everybody."

What does this have to do with orientation? Well, I did get a C for the first time in my life. I was not first in the class, for the first time in my life. Here is the really key point, though - I was prepared for it. If that Resident Advisor had not taken the time to have that talk with me, it would have been much, much worse. I wasn't happy about getting a C or not being at the top of my class, but I didn't feel like the huge failure that I would have if I had not been told ahead of time that it would happen, and, in fact, did happen to almost everyone at the beginning.

Dr. Longie has a similar story from the Marine Corps.
"We had a week-long orientation at the beginning of basic training. The drill sergeant said to us, look to the right and then look to the left. One of those two people sitting next to you is not going to be here at the end of this training. This is no place for whiners. Be prepared to work hard. He was right, too. A lot of people dropped out of basic training."

How does this relate to employee orientation? I would tell new employees to expect that it will take them a while to learn the job. Let them know what difficulties they will expect. It is often hard for a new person to ask questions. After all, they tried to impress you with how much they knew so you would hire them, and now, all of a sudden, they are admitting they don't know how to do the job?

Click here to see how Dan's first day could have gone.