Family Life & Disability
A Product of Disability Access: Empowering Tribal Members with Disabilities & Their Families
by Spirit Lake Consulting, Inc.

SKILLS NEEDED TO LIVE INDEPENDENTLY

  1. Find affordable or accessible housing
  2. Plan budget
  3. Do walk-through for directions to their job, grocery store, public transportation, schools, post office – find distance for time required
  4. Find cost of public transportation
  5. Plan all the things they need and don’t need for apartment, dishes, condoms, sheets, pillow cases (do an inventory)
    Learn to cook
  6. Shop for groceries
  7. Do laundry pay bills
  8. Buy  household items
  9. Learn location of Laundromat
  10. Fire safety
  11. Personal hygiene
  12. Take medication
  13. Get to appointments
  14. Safety precautions – lock door at night, turn off burner when cooking
  15. Monthly to do list with dates of what has to be done when and what has to be paid.
  16. Time management, knowing how to separate your study time and social life
  17. Safe sex, practicing birth control
  18. Control drug and alcohol intake
  19. Put notes around the house if you are forgetful
  20. Practice stress-reducing methods in hectic times like finals, mid-terms, etc.
  21. Get information of supportive services around your area
  22. Try to abide by a daily or weekly schedule
  23. Have some kind of stress relievers for stress from work or home
  24. Be knowledgeable with a needle and thread
  25. Locate information in the phone book
  26. Have an emergency list
  27. Get parking permits
  28. Get an ID
  29. Find the location of the library
  30. Find out about computer services
  31. Figure out in-home living expenses like TV, Internet, phone
  32. Know when your trash is picked up
  33. Be able to do your own shopping, like clothes shopping.
  34. Do your own laundry
  35. Learn to drive
  36. Get insurance
  37. Find out how to get tutors
Information on adolescent development from the Spirit Lake Consulting, Inc. developmental psychology site

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