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            <title>Elder Behaving Badly</title>
            <description><![CDATA[I grew up in the 50's, 60's and early 70's (Hey, it took me a long time to mature), and I remember there were certain elders that you just automatically respected. It didn't matter what gender they were or their physical statue, or how much material items they possessed. These things didn't matter at all -- everyone respected them because they had character.<br /><br />I am a 57-year-old Dakota man, and I suppose I am considered an elder, at least in Indian Country. Lately, I have noticed that I am asked to say the prayer before meetings begin more frequently -- an honor usually reserved for the elderly. So, I guess I am an elder.<br /><br />During a conversation with an acquaintance a few years back, he asked me what was really important to me. After thinking about it for a while, I answered him something to the effect of, "I would like to be known as a person who has acquired a considerable amount of knowledge and wisdom in my fifty-some years here on this earth. I would like to be known as a person who treats everyone fairly. I would like to be known as a person who has the courage and honesty to stand by my principles. I would like to be known as a person people could come to for advice when they wanted or needed it..." I was thinking about the elders I had known as a child when I answered his question.<br /><br />He appeared surprised and asked, "What about having an important high profile job or getting elected to the tribal council?"<br /><br />I replied, "Yes, I would certainly like to have a high paying important job and/or get elected to the tribal council; but if you are in one of those positions, you have to confront someone nose-to-nose every now and then. I've been there and done that, and although I am still capable of doing that, I think that type of behavior is best left to people who are younger than me."<br /><br />His question reminded me of a similar conversation I had with my advisor when I was in my doctoral program at UND. I was around 45 years of age when I entered into my doctoral program. One day I jokingly told my advisor when I got my doctorate, I was going to kick back and take it easy. My advisor looked shocked and said, "Erich, in our world (non-Indian), we are barely getting started at 50.<br /><br />Another time, I was explaining to a non-Indian why a war-chief gave up his position at a "young" age" and assumed the role of an advisor. "A war chief is supposed to do everything that the warriors following him do," I said. "How do you think a man who is over 30 is going to match up with young men who are in their late teens and early twenties? Not very well, especially in hand-to-hand combat," I said. I went on to say, "if they lived long enough, they turned their responsibility over to someone younger than them."<br /><br />I also attended a workshop at which an older person was explaining the stages of life we Dakota's go through. He made a lot of sense. One of the more profound concepts I got out of his teaching was this: "You can't turn the clock back. Once you've passed from one stage to the next, you are there because it is natural for you to be there." My point in regards to this blog is, "if you are an elder, than you behave like an elder."<br /><br />Anyway, back to the point of this blog; as I was saying, the elders I knew as a child are so different than some of the elders I know today. As a child I was taught, mainly by example, that elders were dignified, were patient, were honest, and were fair.<br /><br />Today, most of the elderly I know are also this way, but what about the one or two that don't follow our ways? I am thinking about one elder in particular. This elder uses fouls language at basketball games, lies about the hours worked, lies about other people, is obnoxious and rude in public, etc.<br /><br />Here's my answer; treat them as you would any other elder. For example, a few times I caught my grown children and their friends making fun of this elder, so I reminded them, "_________ is an elder to you, and you should not be saying those bad things about _____."<br /><br />Once, one of them replied, "but Dad, ________ lies so much..."<br /><br />"It doesn't make a difference," I interrupted him, "________ is still an elder, so don't make fun of _______."<br /><br />Because they respect me, they listened to me. But what about the many other young men and women out there who do not have a parent to admonish them when they make fun of an elder who is not behaving like an elder?<br /><br />]]></description>
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            <title>Ethical Decision-Making for our Tribal Leaders </title>
            <description><![CDATA[<p style="MARGIN: 0.1pt 0in" class="MsoNormal"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1.15em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'">It has been awhile since my last blog, the reason being we are almost finished with the Tribal Leaders Institute Project (TLI). The initial development phase of the TLI will come to an end at the end of August, and I have been working hard to make sure we meet the deadline. Beginning in September, our website will be somewhat different. I will eliminate some features, but I will continue to write blogs.<br /><br />Right now, I am writing the fifth and final course, which I titled, <i>Ethical Decision-Making for our Tribal Leaders</i>. The goal of this course is to encourage tribal members who are in leadership positions to approach decision-making using the same ethics: courage, honesty, perseverance, and generosity, as our ancestors did 150 years ago. This blog is a sneak preview of the course:<br /></span><br /></font>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0.1pt 0in" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1.15em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'">The Tale of Two Tribal Leaders</p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0.1pt 0in" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'">Tribal Leader #1 
<p></p>On the last day of high school, Tribal Leader #1 received a phone call from a parent of a senior who had an unusual request. Apparently, the parent's child did not complete all the requirements needed to graduate. His request was to let his child walk across the stage with the other graduates and he would make sure the student completed all the work the week following graduation, so the student would receive her graduation diploma. <br /><br /><em>A month earlier, Tribal Leader #1 attended a board meeting in which the subject of students who might not graduate came up. Tribal Leader #1 and other tribal leaders present directed the principal to make sure he notified every parent a month in advance of graduation if their child was in danger of not meeting graduation requirements. And parents notified were to do everything possible to ensure their child graduated.<br /><br /></em>Therefore, the first thing Tribal Leader #1 did was ask the parent, "Did the principal call you about a month ago and notify you your child was in danger of not graduating?"<br /><br />"Yes," the parent replied, "but they told my child yesterday that [the child] only needs to finish a couple of tests to graduate."<br /><br />Tribal Leader #1 wanted to make sure he heard both sides of the story before he or she replied to the parent. "Let me make a phone call, and I will get back to you," Tribal Leader #1 told the parent. He then called the superintendent (not the principal) and relayed the parent's request. As a responsible board member, Tribal Leader #1 knew all communication with the school staff should go through the CEO; in this case, that was the superintendent. When he called the superintendent, the superintendent responded by assuring Tribal Leader #1 that everything was done to help the student in question. In fact, the superintendent said one of the parents acknowledged it was the student who shirks responsibility, not the school.<br /><br />Tribal Leader #1 called the parent back and informed the parent there was nothing he could do. The parent became irate, so Tribal Leader #1 explained to the parent that a prior board had stopped the practice of letting students walk on the stage when they were close, but did not meet all graduation requirements. And Tribal Leader #1 added, "it sends a wrong message to other students that they do not have to finish all the graduation requirements to take part in graduation and all its pageantry." The parent kept insisting on having his way until Tribal Leader #1 said, "I was one of the members of the previous board who decided not to let seniors walk across the stage if they did not meet all the graduation requirements." The parent became more irate, but knew Tribal Leader #1's reputation for standing by his principles, so after informing Tribal Leader #1 that he was going to talk to the rest of the board members, he hung up.<br /><br />What makes this case study interesting is that Tribal Leader #1 was facing a tough re-election fight in a couple of weeks. The outcome would be decided by a few votes, and the parent in question had promised Tribal Leader #1 his support a couple of weeks earlier. "My whole family will vote for you," he told Tribal Leader #1.</font></span> <br /><br />----------------------------------------- <br /><br />Homework assignment: Identify which traditional values (courage, honesty, perseverance, and generosity) did Tribal Leader #1 exhibit in his decision-making process when dealing with the parent's request.<br /><br />Homework assignment: What is your opinion of Tribal Leader #1 as a tribal leader? <br />
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<p style="MARGIN: 0.1pt 0in" class="MsoNormal"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1.15em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'">Tribal Leader #2<br /><br />Tribal Leader #2 looked over the crowd of angry tribal members. As usual, they were before the council because most of them had no respect for the chain-of-command. Tribal Leader #2 almost said, "You guys need to follow the damn chain-of-command," but thought better of it due to a number of his important supporters being with the group. And it was getting close to election time, so Tribal Leader #2 did not say anything. "Even if I told them to go back and follow the chain-of-command, they [tribal members] would ignore me anyway," Tribal Leader #2 thought. After all, it always has been done this way.<br /><br />So, Tribal Leader #2 prepared for the humiliation that he would have to endure and for the blatant disrespect for council authority he knew would surely come. Especially since most of the accusations thrown back and forth were mainly to distract council members from the truth, and therefore prevent them from making a decision based in fact. Tribal Leader #2 thought, "I wish someone would try to control the shouting and mean spirited behavior that will come," never once realizing that he, himself, as a tribal leader, should try and control the behavior.<br /><br />Sure enough, it didn't take long for the meeting to get out of control. Tribal Leader #2's conscience bothered him briefly, because a tribal member who had the courage and honesty to stand by his convictions was getting verbally abused and attacked from all sides. "But what the heck," Tribal Leader #2 thought, "that is how tribal politics works sometimes."<br /><br />Tribal Leader #2 breathed a sigh of relief when the meeting was finally over and due to keeping quiet during most of the meeting, Tribal Leader #2 felt he did not alienate too many voters. Tribal Leader #2 knew tribal members would interpret his or her action as cowardice for letting the meeting get out of control and not standing up to the bullies in the crowd, but that would not matter. Tribal Leader #2's supporters would still vote for Tribal Leader #2, anyway. After all, Tribal Leader #2 supporters did not want Tribal Leader #2 to show any courage or honesty at these types of meetings. In fact, they did not vote for Tribal Leader #2 because of Tribal Leader #2's courage and honesty. Instead, they voted for Tribal Leader #2 for exactly the opposite reasons. They wanted a leader who could be counted on to let their group get away with their unethical cowardly behavior.</font></span> <br /><br />----------------------------------------- <br /><br />Homework assignment: Identify which traditional values (courage, honesty, perseverance, and generosity) Tribal Leader #2 exhibited in his decision-making process when he decided how to approach the meeting.<br /><br />Homework assignment: What is your opinion of Tribal Leader #2 as a tribal leader? <br />
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<p style="MARGIN: 0.1pt 0in" class="MsoNormal"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1.15em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'">I expect to be finished with this course in three weeks and will start on the final report to our funding agency then. After two years of writing courses about ethics, or lack of, on Indian reservations, I am convinced these courses are needed. The biggest question mark is, will tribal organizations be willing to hire Spirit Lake Consulting to train their employees in ethical behavior in the work place?</span></p><br /></font>]]></description>
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            <title>Smoke and Mirrors</title>
            <description><![CDATA[We tribal members who attend or attended UND and are against the nickname have very good reasons for wanting the Fighting Sioux nickname to go. Our first hand accounts about the "hostile and abusive" nature of the Fighting Sioux logo cannot be discredited by the pro logo side. Therefore, they ignore addressing our concerns. Instead, they conjure up many other reasons to restore the Fighting Sioux nickname and logo.<br /><br />On April 18, 2010, the Forum published an editorial titled, <em>UND logo fallout gets silly</em>. It pointed out that the tactics used by pro logo supporters to restore a racist nickname and logo was - well silly. Apparently, this editorial prompted the use of another new strategy by logo supporters, the old "smoke and mirrors" trick, to restore the Fighting Sioux nickname.<br /><br />For those who are not familiar with the term, here is Wikipedia's definition: Smoke and mirrors is a metaphor for a deceptive, fraudulent or insubstantial explanation or description. The source of the name is based on magicians' illusions, where magicians make objects appear or disappear by extending or retracting mirrors amid a confusing burst of smoke. The expression may have a connotation of virtuosity or cleverness in carrying out such a deception.<br /><br />After being called "silly" by the Forum, almost every letter writer who wrote to the Herald in support of the nickname had written nothing but positive statements about us Indians. Man! I never read so many positive things about us in my entire life. Why all this sudden outpouring of "generosity"? Because it is a ruse, maybe not a conscious ruse, but a ruse none-the-less. The ruse is a softening up tactic that is manifesting itself in the form of false generosity.<br /><br />Writing positive things about us is supposed to make all the problems associated with the Fighting Sioux nickname and logo "disappear." Hence, my reference to the old "smoke and mirrors" trick.<br /><br />Another old ruse often used is this. "It is easier to get forgiven then get permission." This is exactly what Fool Bear, tribal member and a logo supporter, is attempting to do. On a Grand Forks radio station he said, "Trust democracy." According to Fool Bear, "democracy" on the reservation will ensure that "grassroots support" would stay strong in the years to come preventing future council members from dropping the name. He may fool non-Indians, but those of us who live on Indian reservations know how fickle tribal politics can be. Trying to predict tribal politics is like trying to predict the weather. He hopes the Standing Rock tribal council will fall for his ruse.<br /><br />Frankly, I do trust democracy. It is the pro logo people who I do not trust because they are not speaking for themselves. A young lady from the Standing Rock reservation addressed both the trust issue and the democracy issue in her comment section on the Bismarck Tribune: <b><i>"I find it very insulting to our tribal governance for their stance on the issue [against the logo] to not be respected. They are elected officials just like the elected officials of the State of the ND and those we send to DC. They are not free to shoot at the hip on what they feel they should vote. They have a constituency they are representing when they vote on council. They are required to attend their community meetings and vote accordingly to what their district decides on for different issues. This issue has already been voted on in these communities. This issue has gone through the democratic process. However, the people who are for the name, and it is definitely not UND, it's a third party who is at work here, a third party who has paid tribal members to push this referendum and to undermine out democratic process here on the reservation. This third party truly has no respect for Tribes or Tribal governments.</i></b><br /><br />The third ruse is the claim that we are all "Fighting Sioux." No. If you are not an enrolled member of one of the many bands that make up the Great Sioux Nation, then you are not a Sioux. This outrageous claim by Fool Bear reveals how frightened pro logo tribal members are of freedom and equality. Instead, they want to be exactly like those who perpetuate a racist logo and nickname. This "fear of freedom" guides them down a prescribed role or path that the REA (Ralph Engelstad Arena) Foundation has laid out for them. This "fear of freedom" also leads them to try to silence tribal members who are against the nickname.<br /><br />In my opinion, the most accurate poll to determine whether or not the Fighting Sioux logo and mascot is hostile and abusive is one that polls all the American Indians who have attended or currently are attending UND. The wrong people to poll are the Indians who never set one foot on the UND campus or in a UND classroom or the screaming fan that attends hockey games painted up and/or dressed up as an Indian.<br /><br />I know I can safely say that all tribal council members would like to see younger tribal members get a college degree. In fact, many tribes provide scholarships to their members who attend college. A tribal leader's role is to insure the safety of its tribal members including those who attend UND. Why would tribal leaders jeopardize our children's safety and/or education at UND by sanctioning a racist harmful logo? This is not our way. ]]></description>
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            <title>Who is to Blame?</title>
            <description><![CDATA[<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 11pt">This past fall the Athletic Director (AD) at&nbsp;Four Winds Community School resigned after he admitted to&nbsp;illegal tampering of a student's records.&nbsp; His supporters, and he has many, were outraged, not at him, but at us, the school board and administration, for accepting his resignation (I'm the president of the school board). &nbsp;Their constant harassment forced us to go to the tribal council for guidance.&nbsp; At the meeting with the council, many of the AD's supporters showed up and did a very good job of intimidating the faint of heart.&nbsp; At this meeting, I passed out my response (below) to one of the AD's supporters who kept insisting Rick was not to blame.&nbsp; Read my response and judge for yourself if the AD should be rehired and allowed to work with student athletes again.<span><!--EndFragment--></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">John,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">I read your email to me in which you expressed your concerns about our school.&nbsp; You have been a long-time employee at the school, and you have a Master's in Educational Administration; therefore, I am assuming that you know any grievance you may have against a fellow employee must be filed by following the grievance process laid out in the employee handbook.&nbsp; <o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">By deciding not to utilize the grievance process in relaying your concerns to me, I am taking the contents of your email as your opinions rather than an official complaint.&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">Your opinions appear to originate from your concern over Rick Smith's resignation.&nbsp; Apparently, you believe that other people should be held accountable for Rick's unethical behavior.&nbsp; <b>Here is a statement that Rick wrote last year which he read on the radio, and please note Rick takes full responsibility for his incompetence.</b></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 41.65pt 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">I sincerely apologize to the school boards, the administration, staff, and students for causing great stress, humility, and displeasure. &nbsp;I take full responsibility for my actions. &nbsp;The oversight on the rules infraction and any other type of eligibility of our student/athletes lies solely on my shoulders. &nbsp;This is a part of the Athletic Director's duties and I am the Athletic Director at the Four Winds Community School. &nbsp;The Four Winds Community School has put their trust in me as their employee and I have let them down.<span>&nbsp; </span>(Written Statement by Rick Smith to the Spirit Lake Community, March 17, 2009) </span></i><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">You also express concern that the board allowed the business manager to attend a national conference.&nbsp; When I was elected to the school board six years ago, the school's finances were in shambles.&nbsp; The business manager worked very hard, had to make some tough decisions, and now our finances are in the best shape they have ever been.&nbsp; The board is not remiss if we decide to send an excellent employee to a conference.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">In my six years on the board not once has anyone, including you, complained about the business manager attending the NSBA conference.&nbsp; In addition, with your Master's degree in Educational Administration, I find it curious that you would request that I blame Rick's unethical behavior on someone else.&nbsp; Your education would suggest that you would know better.&nbsp; This peculiar request leads me to ask several questions of my own:</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">Are you aware that Rick had promised to write a letter to the North Dakota High School Athletic Association taking <i>full</i> responsibility for his actions to help us get our post season back?</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">&nbsp; <i>He was going to ask them to not punish our boys for his failures.&nbsp; Apparently, he changed his mind.&nbsp; I strongly believe had Rick followed through with his promise to write a letter to the NDHSAA they would have voted to allow our boys to play in post season.&nbsp; In my opinion, he deliberately abandoned our boys' basketball players in retaliation for us (the board) not letting him to continue on as coach after he resigned. <span>&nbsp;</span>Not only did Rick's unethical action cause our sports teams to be barred from competing in post-season play, but he abandoned them when they needed him most.&nbsp; </i></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">Are you part of that group that wants us to lower our academic standards so that our students can play sports?&nbsp; If this is true, do you know what you are asking?&nbsp; My goodness, do you realize how many people have come to me over the past six years and gave me heck because our students are not prepared academically?&nbsp; And now you want us to lower our academic standards?</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">&nbsp; <b>Why should we risk the future of all our students just so a few can play basketball? <span>&nbsp;</span></b><i>A couple of years ago an angry parent approached me. <span>&nbsp;</span>She said she wanted to ask Rick to look after her boy.<span>&nbsp; </span>She went on to say that Rick let him get away with everything when he was in school just so he could play basketball and now he cannot fend for himself.<span>&nbsp; </span>It's Rick's fault he is that way, she said.</i> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">The problems with Rick are not new.&nbsp; When I was voted in six years ago, one of the first big problems we had was with the way Rick did his job. <span>&nbsp;</span>We had at least three meetings in which people screamed and yelled at each other because Rick did not do his job in an ethical manner.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">In regards to your statement, "Remember, these&nbsp;people, along with myself, voted you into office and&nbsp;all of them want&nbsp;something to be done." <span>&nbsp;</span>Here is my response: The majority of people who voted for me wanted me to promote academics.<span>&nbsp; </span>Over the past six years, the board and administration have worked very hard to accomplish that.<span>&nbsp; </span>This is what my voters want, and this is what I will continue to do.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">John, I have known and worked with you for many years. <span>&nbsp;</span>I know you to be a good, decent person, but I have to admit, I am puzzled by your blind loyalty to the former Athletic Director and your persistence in placing Rick's mistakes on other administrators.&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">This leads to two final questions: <b>Do you and whatever group of people you represent hope to have our current administration fired whereby you can become principal and hire back Rick Smith as coach and Athletic Director? Is this why you are constantly disparaging our administration?</b> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">The bottom line is this: Not one of the individuals you mentioned in your email was involved in the illegal tampering of a student's record, which led to Rick's voluntary resignation.&nbsp; Rick and Rick alone did that.&nbsp; And this violation of the trust placed in him is what resulted in our boys' basketball post-season play being denied. </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black">It is time for you and your small group of people to accept that Rick is no longer the AD, that his resignation was voluntary and final, and let it go and move on.&nbsp; We--the school board, the administration, and community members--have moved on.&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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            <description><![CDATA[<span style="FONT-FAMILY: Times; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">A few days ago, a person asked me what my thoughts were on cultural diversity, and how we can promote it. Here was my answer:</span><br /><br />
<p style="MARGIN: 0in 0.5in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><u>Cultural diversity</u> starts with respect, high self-esteem, (moral) courage, (self) honesty and a belief in equality. In my opinion, <u>human beings</u> are naturally ethnocentric, and it takes all the characteristics I listed above to overcome that ethnocentrism (At some point and/or in some cases, for whatever reason, ethnocentrism morphs into racism.).</p><br /><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Times; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">As a young man, I had no respect for non-Indians in North Dakota, mainly because of how they treated my mother (family) and me as I was growing up. At that time in my life, I didn't have the moral courage or the self-honesty to admit my attitude was racist. Although, even at that young age, I knew that racism was wrong. Due to my low self-esteem at the time and a little physical courage, I responded to every hostile action from non-Indians with plenty of hostility of my own. And I admit, I sometimes initiated acts of hostility first. <br /><br />I'm an avid reader and listener. As a young man, I read dozens of books about us. I listened to many stories from my mother, aunts, and older relatives about how my parents, grandparents, and ancestors overcame adversity and survived, despite the hardships they faced, and I became extremely proud of who I was and where I came from.<br /><br />When I quit consuming alcohol, my self-esteem skyrocketed, and I like to say I worked hard (and I am still working hard) to develop respect, high self-esteem, (moral) courage, (self) honesty and a belief in equality. These characteristics help me very much in understanding the need for cultural diversity.<br /><br />What prevents a race from interacting with another race?<br /><br />When I was a young man, I didn't have the self-honesty to admit my attitude was racist, and I openly practiced racism. At that time, I had some physical courage, but no moral courage, and as a result committed some stupid acts against non-Indians. I also had no self-respect; therefore, I had no respect for non-Indians. Due to my low self-esteem, any mention of words like "Chief," "Tonto," "Squaw," "Prairie Nigger," "Lazy Injun," etc., and yes, the <strong>"Fighting Sioux"</strong> usually elicited a strong response from me. As a result, I had very few (if any) interactions with the "other" race, and I liked it that way. Looking back, I can say I hurt race relations between the two races, and I had very few non-Indian friends, if any.<br /><br />As I grew older and developed some self-honesty, I admitted my racism was (is) wrong. As my self-respect grew, so did my respect for other races, and as my self-esteem rose, I didn't have a knee jerk reaction whenever a non-Indian threw a racial epitaph at me. At the same time, my (moral) courage and my belief in equality rose tremendously, and I began to speak up, in an objective manner, against all forms of what I consider racism. The strange thing about it is instead of losing the few non-Indians friends I had, I gained many, many more. In fact, let me state this, in spite of my very vocal and public opposition to the <strong>Fighting Sioux Logo</strong> and other forms of racism, I enjoy many interactions with non-Indians: <br /><br />
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<li>I am the only Indian member of a pool team that consists of five other non-Indian players. Two of them are brothers (Hanson). I travel quite frequently with these individuals. We often share the same hotel room, and they often invite me to their homes. We have hung around so much together and for long that I am often teased as being a "Hanson." <br /><br /></li>
<li>Every Friday, I travel to Grand Forks and shoot pool with another non-Indian who is in a wheelchair. We have been doing this for the past 25 years, and it is now considered a "tradition" by some pool players in Grand Forks. This Scandinavian is now 62 years old, but 20 years ago, we traveled to every pool tournament in the state often competing as partners. His dad (deceased) and his brother think very highly of me, and my boys consider him an "Uncle."<br /><br /></li>
<li>My CPA is a non-Indian, and I consider her a personal friend as well, as I do two other non-Indians who I work with. Both are from Grand Forks. Actually, one retired and moved to St. Paul.<br /><br /></li>
<li>50% of my FaceBook friends are non-Indian. <br /><br /></li>
<li>About a month ago, three non-Indian Democrats approached me and asked me to be on the ticket with them. I agreed, and I am now the Democratic candidate for North Dakota House of Representatives for District 23. At the beginning of our meeting, I informed them that I was a very vocal and public opponent of the Fighting Sioux nickname and logo. That didn't make any difference, and I am now a candidate for the North Dakota House of Representatives, running in District #23. <br /><br /></li>
<li>I was asked to sit on the "Commission to Study Racial and Ethnic Bias in the Courts" in North Dakota state courts. This commission is made up of about 60% non-Indians: state judges, and people who associate with the state courts. <br /><br /></li>
<li>I am invited to talk to North Dakota State University faculty on Thursday. <br /></li></ul>I could list many more examples of productive enjoyable interactions I have with non-Indians but I think you get the point. <br /><br />
<p>In my opinion, people respect you not so much for what you believe in or support as they respect you for what your character is. People admire courage, honesty, perseverance, and generosity in an individual. I will be the first to admit, I did not follow these values when I was a young man. However, I would like to think I now work very hard on practicing them. Although, I am certainly not perfect. By working hard to live by our traditional values to the best of my ability, people - non-Indians and Indians alike - judge me on my character, not what my stands are on certain issues. I also judge people on their character, not what their stands are on issues. As a result, I enjoy many, many friendships and interactions with the non-Indians that we share this state with.<br /><br /></p></span>]]></description>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p>It was with great interest that we watched the events unfold at Standing Rock; events that led to a petition that was submitted to their tribal chairman. As soon as it became apparent that pro-logo supporters at Standing Rock were carrying a petition to put the Fighting Sioux logo and mascot to a vote, those of us here at Spirit Lake, who oppose the use of the logo by Ralph Engelstad Arena (REA), decided to collect signatures for a petition of our own. This is something we had planned on and talked about for the last year.<br /><br />Our petition expressly requests that the Spirit Lake Tribal Council hold another election to determine if the majority of Spirit Lake tribal members are still in favor of Ralph Engelstad Arena's use of the Fighting Sioux nickname and logo. We haven't been idle this past year. Since the last vote, we have been working hard to educate tribal members on how the Fighting Sioux nickname is used as an avenue for racist behavior. We know we have been changing a lot of minds.<br /><br />When we presented our petition to tribal members, we showed examples of the disrespectful uses and images that always accompany the use of the logo, albeit, in the background, just out of sight of most of the public. The pictures that helped us the most were pictures of a sorority party where UND students dressed up in costumes that mimicked Native Americans, costumes that were extremely disrespectful toward Native Americans. They used gunnysacks as dresses, red paint to paint handprints on their bodies. One picture showed them in a sexually suggestive pose. ... and, NO, this was not 20 years ago, but only a few years ago.<br /><br />We had hoped we would not have to carry a petition against the Fighting Sioux logo and mascot because there is too much division over the name here on Spirit Lake. The mention of the nickname often starts an argument between opposing sides. One young tribal member who was carrying the petition for us had an older lady tear the petition up in front of her face and throw it in the garbage. It was retrieved from the garbage, taped together, and will be among those signatures we turn in with our petition.<br /><br />On the other hand, the ease and quickness with which we were able to collect 300 signatures was heartening. We heard positive comments to the effect, "If you had shown these pictures the last time, we would not have voted for the logo." They awaken to the fact that they are not mascots and will vote to reverse the prior decision made by our council. We will present our petition with its required number of signatures to the tribal council within the next few weeks.<br /><br />Our (Spirit Lake Nation) constitution requires that a petition must have 20% of the number of people who voted in the last election sign the petition before the tribal council can accept it. There were approximately 1100 tribal members who voted in the last election. Therefore, we needed approximately 220 signatures. We started a couple of weeks ago, and we now have approximately 300 signatures.<br /><br />Nickname supporters may be winning some battles, like having tribal members get petitions in favor of the Sioux nickname, and filing lawsuits.&nbsp;We may not be able to match you in resources, but we are more than a match for you in determination. Our determination partly stems from our desire to protect our youth and other Native Americans, who attend or will attend the University of North Dakota, from the racist behavior that always accompanies the use of the Fighting Sioux logo and mascot.<br /><br />In closing, we want to make it perfectly clear to the Ralph Engelstad Arena Foundation and other nickname supporters: we will never rest until the Fighting Sioux nickname and logo is retired from the Ralph Engelstad Arena. Right now our tribal constitution gives us tribal members the right to petition to the tribal government. We will exercise that right, and will continue to petition until we get rid of the nickname. There is no doubt in our minds, we will win the war by attrition - we will keep fighting until you are worn down.</p>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p>How many of you have heard about Chief Clarence Louie from the Osoyoos Indian Band in British Columbia? After reading a few articles about him, I thought to myself, "Wow! He makes the material in my Tribal Leaders Institute sound tame."</p>
<p>Speaking at a large aboriginal conference, Chief Clarence Louie said, "I can't stand people who are late. Indian Time doesn't cut it. My first rule for success is 'Show up on time.' My No. 2 rule for success is follow Rule No. 1." He goes on to say, "If your life sucks, it's because you suck. Quit your sniffling. Join the real world - go to school or get a job. Get off of welfare. Get off your butt." (MacGregor, 2006, para.s 3-4, 6-10)</p>
<p>However, the comment I appreciated most was this, "Our ancestors worked for a living," he says. "So should you" (MacGregor, 2006, para. 14). This is exactly the point I try to drive home in Tribal Leaders Institute courses.</p>
<p>Who is Clarence Louie?</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0in 0.5in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'"><strong>He is "chief - <em>and</em> CEO - of the Osoyoos Band in British Columbia's South Okanagan. He is 44 years old [now 50], though he looks like he would have been an infant when he began his remarkable 20-year-run as chief. He took a band that had been declared bankrupt and taken over by Indian Affairs and he has turned it into an inspiration." (MacGregor, 2006, para. 17)</strong></span></p>
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<p>According to MacGregor (2006), "Chief Louie is tough. He is ... proud of the fact that his band <em>fires</em> its own people as well as hires them." He understands that there will always be those who disagree with him, but that does not prevent him from making courageous and honest decisions. As tough as he is, he says he is nothing compared to his mother. Especially, when it comes to how to deal with what she calls today's lazy aboriginal male youth. "Rent a plane," she told him, "and fly them all to Iraq. Dump 'em off and all the ones who make it back are keepers" (para.s 21-22).</p>
<p>When competent leaders in Indian country hold their tribal members accountable, one thing is for certain; their own people will attack them. Chief Louie's situation is no different. He is accused of abandoning their traditions in favor of money. Some people say he is "... sacrificing traditional First Nations culture and values at the altar of capitalism ..." (Findlay, 2009, para. 3). Chief Louie's response to this accusation is, "You're going to lose your language and culture faster in poverty than you will in economic development" (MacGregor, 2006, para. 27). To further defend his actions, he asserts his people come first. "I won't go to a meeting these days unless it has to do with creating jobs and making money," he said. "I spend my time on economic development and I don't care what you say; everything costs money. Even our traditional ceremonies cost money" (Findlay, 2009, para. 2). He goes on to chide fellow aboriginals "who claim to be following the 'red road' (adhering to traditional values and spirituality) while collecting a social assistance cheque" (Findlay, 2009, para. 3). Ironically, as a result of his focus on economic development, his band was able to build the beautiful Nk'Mip Desert Cultural Centre that promotes First Nations aboriginal culture.</p>
<p>Chief Louie does not discriminate. Nobody - First Nations people or the federal department of Indian affairs, which he says is "an inept bureaucracy that has perpetuated a First Nations welfare state" - is immune to his criticism (Findlay, 2009, para. 3). The bottom line is that he wants aboriginals to move "beyond entry-level jobs to real jobs they 'earn' - all the way to the boardrooms. He wants to see 'business manners' develop: showing up on time, working extra hours. The business lunch, he says, should be 'drive through,' and then right back at it" (MacGregor, 2006, para. 6).</p>
<p>I often point out in my Tribal Institute courses that most Indians love courageous and honest leaders and will follow them anywhere. This seems to be the case with Chief Louie. The audiences love his speeches. They are not turned off by his tough talk at all. And judging from the success his band has experienced over the last 20 years, I would say they have definitely followed his leadership. According to Findlay (2009):</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0in 0.5in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Book Antiqua'"><strong>"The Osoyoos Indian Band Development Corp. currently owns nine businesses, with annual revenues topping $13 million, including the award-winning Nk'Mip Cellars, the first First Nations-owned winery in the world. Every Christmas, 12 per cent of profits are distributed to band members. In 2005, more than 1,000 First Nations and non-First Nations were employed by OIB businesses and joint ventures. That same year, OIB Holdings generated nearly $2 million in lease payments from non-First Nations companies such as Calgary-based Bellstar Hotels &amp; Resorts, which is putting the finishing touches on a four-star property - Spirit Ridge Vineyard Resort and Spa - on the shores of Lake Osoyoos. Not too shabby for a band that has fewer members than your average urban high school has students" (para. 5-6).</strong></span></p>
<p></p>Finally, Chief Louie, "prides himself on being 'a stay-home chief who looks after the potholes in his own backyard' and wastes no time 'running around" the country (MacGregor, 2006, para. 30). Perhaps the best phrase Chief Louie has uttered is this one, "Get over it." Louie says, to the twenty per cent who don't like what he says or his leadership. "Get some counseling" (MacGregor, 2006, para. 29) 
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<p>REFERENCES:</p>
<p>Findlay, A. (2009, December 11). Ruffling feathers: The tough-talking, no-bullshit genius of Chief Clarence Louie. <em>ibrii</em>. Retrieved from <a href="http://www.ibrii.com/n/95v6t">http://www.ibrii.com/n/95v6t</a></p>
<p>MacGregor, R. (2006,&nbsp;September 21). Indian Time doesn't cut it' for innovative chief with on-the-edge humor. <em>The Globe and Mail</em>. Retrieved from <a href="http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/article844275.ece">http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/article844275.ece</a></p>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p>What a weekend!&nbsp; First, I attended a meeting held by a "Commission to Study Racial and Ethnic Bias in the Courts" in the State of North Dakota (a commission to which I was recently appointed).&nbsp; The composition of the commission consists of several state judges, a tribal judge, people who work with or within the state courts system, and several other minorities like myself.</p>
<p>The North Dakota Supreme Court created this commission to study ethnic and racial bias in the North Dakota State Court system.&nbsp; In the next two years, we will be traveling to different locations where significant populations of minorities reside.&nbsp; Naturally, this includes the state's four reservations, the cities of Grand Forks, Fargo, and probably Bismarck and Minot as well.&nbsp; We will hold public meetings to obtain testimonies from minorities who felt they were treated unfairly by the court system due to their status as a minority.&nbsp; We will also create surveys that we hope people who come in contact with the court system will fill out.&nbsp; After the study is completed, we will write a report that contains recommendations to improve the courts' handling of minorities.</p>
<p>This is an excellent opportunity for all you minorities out there, especially you Native Americans, who feel you have been slighted by the state courts, to stand up and speak up.&nbsp; If you are not a public speaker, there will be people at these meetings to help you either write your testimony down or assist you in some other way so your voice will be heard.</p>
<p>Keep in mind our two traditional values of courage and honesty if you choose to provide testimony.&nbsp; Have the courage to speak up, no matter how scared you may be.&nbsp; Your courage may be the key to identifying an extremely harmful racial practice within the court system.&nbsp; And do not lie when you give testimony.&nbsp; If you do, your lie will be discovered and will end up hurting all minorities.</p>
<p>After the meeting, I drove to Fargo and attended the Democratic state convention.&nbsp; It was a new experience for me.&nbsp; It reminded me a little of our powwows.&nbsp; I was extremely impressed by the passion and dedication exhibited by delegates and candidates to the Democratic Party's causes.&nbsp; There were plenty of good speakers.&nbsp; The keynote speaker was Paul Begala who now serves as a political contributor for CNN.&nbsp; He was a former advisor to President Bill Clinton.&nbsp; And there were lots of people I knew.&nbsp; My old friend and mentor Dr. Berg was there as well as Phyllis Howard and several other Indians I knew.</p>
<p>I attended the candidates' breakfast on Sunday; listened to Dorgan, Conrad, and Pomeroy talk (again).&nbsp; I thoroughly enjoyed the camaraderie displayed by all the people at the convention. &nbsp;I now look forward to my campaign to become the next person who will represent District #23 in North Dakota's House of Representatives.</p>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p>Many years ago, I listened to a speech a congressman made right before he retired. He talked about how all the battles he had fought and won over his years in office would have to be fought over and over again by the younger generation. What he was talking about was that people who are crooks (who lie, who steal) never take a break, and he was exhorting the younger generation to carry on the good fight.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, "good values" are not the only values that are passed on to the next generation.&nbsp; I find it amazing that the same unethical behaviors and tactics I have observed used years and years ago, when I first started working for the tribe, are still in use today. Only the people have changed... or in some cases, I will say the family members have changed.</p>
<p>In many instances, unethical behavior appears to be passed down from parent to child.&nbsp; There is a core group of tribal members who commit unethical workplace behavior over and over again.&nbsp; Typically, they are tribal workers who are not at the very top of the chain-of-command in an organization.&nbsp; Most of the time, they are your average tribal workers who are nice to people outside their jobs, and who are usually involved in community and/or social events.&nbsp; But, do not underestimate their influence.&nbsp; While they quietly go about committing unethical work behavior, they often befriend a lot of people in doing so.&nbsp; They do this for a reason.&nbsp; They are cunning enough to know they might get into trouble at some time in the future, and they will need all the help they can get.&nbsp; This is why they pick the ones they befriend very carefully.&nbsp; They want people who will ignore their unethical behavior and support them regardless.</p>
<p>The membership of this unholy group is usually very fluid.&nbsp; Its members come and go depending upon whatever the issue is.&nbsp; Some of the characteristics they share are: cowardice, greed, and dishonesty, and they are inclined to defend nepotism and favoritism.</p>
<p>As I said, most of the time, they go quietly about their unethical behavior, but watch out if someone tries to reform them, or if they are recruited by another member of their group to help protect one of their kind who is in trouble.&nbsp; Then, they can turn as mean as snakes.&nbsp; They are not afraid to intimidate people by banding together and ganging up on whoever opposes them; and it doesn't matter who.&nbsp; Other workers, supervisors, CEOs, and tribal council persons, alike,&nbsp;are all subject to their unholy wrath.</p>
<p>Probably, the most common example of the cowardly, dishonest, bullying type of behavior that this group is capable of is when one of their own who is in an influential position is fired or has to resign from his or her job.&nbsp; Here is what usually happens:</p>
<p>1.&nbsp; Once the person is fired or resigns, this group immediately, but quietly (some might say sneakily), begins to work to get it reversed.&nbsp; Why?&nbsp; Is it because they are true friends with the individual?&nbsp; Is it because of loyalty?&nbsp; Absolutely not!&nbsp; It is because the individual was in a position to do them favors with the program or the position's resources.&nbsp; They are very skillful in the art of schmoozing anyone who has the influence to reverse the decision.</p>
<p>2.&nbsp; When Step 1 doesn't work, they ignore the fact that the person deserved to be fired.&nbsp; Instead, they talk about all the "good" this person has done on the job and how no one else "will be able to" do the job as good as him or her.&nbsp; By now, they are becoming vocal and a little threatening.</p>
<p>3.&nbsp; When Step 1 and 2 doesn't work, they do the next best thing - they blame someone else. Although this claim is so obviously a ploy, they do it with a straight face and a lot of passion. After all, they have a lot to lose.</p>
<p>4.&nbsp; When Steps 1, 2,&nbsp;and 3 do not work, the gloves come off.&nbsp; They lie.&nbsp; They threaten.&nbsp; They organize groups of tribal members to protest, and they schmooze everyone and anyone who they think will help them.</p>
<p>Some of their unethical ways were learned on the job, but most were passed down to them from someone older than them, usually, from someone they admired and respected.&nbsp; Because of that, some of them really do not fathom that what they are doing is just plain wrong.&nbsp; They are incapable of self-honesty.&nbsp; This is why this group of unethical tribal workers is as strong today as they were over 20 years ago when I first started working for the tribe.&nbsp; And this group will continue to exist.&nbsp; They will continue to hold the tribe back from making progress in all areas, unless you have the courage and honesty to stand up to them.</p>
<p>I know it is easier said than done.&nbsp; But these people have feelings, too.&nbsp; Many of them are not exactly courageous types and will back down when someone stands up to them.&nbsp; And although it may not seem like it, most of them do know the difference between right and wrong and will listen to a strong honest voice.&nbsp; I hope this voice will be you. </p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b style="">Response to Article: <i style="">"An Admirable Display of Courage"</i><o:p></o:p></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><b style="">Written by: Erich
Longie, Spirit Lake Consulting<o:p></o:p></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><b style="">Response submitted
by: Dr. Leigh D. Jeanotte, Director, American Indian Student Services at the
University of North Dakota<o:p></o:p></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">March 16, 2010</p>

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<p class="MsoNormal">It was with great interest that I read <i style="">"An Admirable Display of Courage"</i> by Dr. Erich Longie.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>I wondered what this long-time very
vocal opponent of the Fighting Sioux nickname at the University of North Dakota
(UND) would have to say about the rather historic meeting he attended of the
North Dakota State Board of Higher Education (NDSBHE) held on the UND
campus.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>I use the word "historic"
to describe this meeting because according to news reports, for the first time
in this decades-long controversy, leadership within the NDSBHE and at an
administrative level at UND voiced loud and clear their desire and the need for
the nickname to go - the sooner the better.<span style="">&nbsp; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Dr. Longie addressed this historic turn of events within the
framework of organizational theory and behavior, and did so in way that gave
credit - even praise - to the leaders who dared to <b style="">publicly</b> speak out in favor of immediately retiring the outdated
tradition of Fighting Sioux athletics at UND.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>Longie credited UND President Robert Kelley, Chancellor
William Goetz, Board member Mike Haugen, and Athletic Director Brian Faison
with moral courage and credited them for inspiring local <i style="">Grand Forks Herald</i> reporter Tu-Uyen Tran to make the following
honest admission via the headline of his <i style="">Herald
</i>story: "Tide Seems to Turn Against Nickname," which was, by all accounts, a
change of perspective from this nickname supporting newspaper reporter. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>

<span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">In reading Dr. Longie's essay and other writings, I
must commend him on his enthusiasm and optimistic approach regarding this
rather tiring story and process (retirement of the UND nickname).<span style="">&nbsp; </span>Through his newsletter, he brings new
energy to those who feel exhausted with the length of time this controversy has
simmered, and he does so in a fully informed, research backed, academically
sound manner.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>Dr. Longie's
perspective is refreshing and honest, and I fully endorse his worthy
contributions to the world of publishing.<span style="">&nbsp;
</span>I can only imagine how powerful this American Indian (Spirit Lake
Nation) writer's messages could be within our society if the American public
took notice of his articles and paused long enough to learn!</span><!--EndFragment-->
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            <description><![CDATA[<p><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1em">Well it is over. I never thought I would be around to bury my younger brother, Mark, but on Saturday, February 21, 2010, we did. </font></p>
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<p><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1em">My sister, April, who had discovered Mark's body, mentioned when she found him, he looked really peaceful. Mark had really struggled with his demons the last couple of years, and it showed on his face this last year of his life. When his casket was open, and I went up to view the body, I thought he looked really peaceful, too.</font></p>
<p><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1em">After they closed the casket, Mark's preacher conducted the service, and he mentioned how he knew Mark during his (Mark's) better times, and he talked about how Mark struggled with his problems the last couple of years. As preachers tend to do, he said there was a lesson or a message in how Mark died. When he finished, I stood up and spoke:</font></p>
<p><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1em">I mentioned how various people talked about knowing Mark at different times in his life. "But, I knew him my whole life... his whole life," I said. There were ten of us in our family. I was the fifth one, and Mark was the sixth one. We had shared a single mattress together, which we had to sleep sideways on up in the attic of our log cabin. We ate oatmeal, cheese... commodities together. I talked about how we had the same sense of humor, how we read the same books; we liked the same food... People would come up to me and mistake me for Mark all the time. "I am not Mark," I would say. "I am not 6'3" and I don't weigh 300 pounds. Maybe, it is because we share the same Spirit or our Spirits are so close that people think we look alike," I said. I mentioned how he helped me out when my son, Joel, passed away several years ago. He would let me talk for hours on the phone with him during that time. He was very generous with his time. I mentioned his generosity toward my son, Marshall. Right after Joel died, he gave my son, Marshall, two to three hundred dollars when Marshall had to go on a trip <strong><em>(Today, Marshall's mother, Leona, reminded me that Mark gave each of us $200 when our son, Joel, passed away. "He must have been one of those quiet ones who never tell anyone when they help someone," she said.)</em></strong>. Finally I said, "People have talked about the circumstances of his death, and at first it bothered me, too. But, you know what? One morning, I woke up and realized it didn't matter, not knowing how he died (or why) because knowing would not lessen or increase my grief for him. It doesn't matter to me anymore," I said. </font>
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<p><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1em">After I spoke, my nephew came to the mike and spoke. He recalled how Mark went all the way to Carlsbad, New Mexico, to pick him up -- just like that -- when he needed a ride to North Dakota. Next, a lady stood up and spoke fondly about Mark. Then, two members of the drum group (one who is our relative) came up and sang a beautiful prayer song in front of his casket. Then, Mark's sister-in-law spoke about how Mark came into their family. Then, the mother of a man who Mark pulled from a burning car at the risk of his own life came up and said a prayer. Finally, a Marine who is a member of the local VFW club said a prayer for Mark in Dakota.</font></p>
<p><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1em">Several&nbsp;of Mark's wife's family&nbsp;drove from Bozeman, Montana, and a couple of them came from Minnesota, which I thought was very nice.</font></p>
<p><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1em">During the Giveaway, we made sure all his wife's family who came down received a gift. We actually had enough gifts for everyone. After we had given away all the gifts, we had a round dance, and almost everyone participated in it, even the White relatives from Minnesota and Montana. It helped lighten everyone's mood. I have to say, us brothers and sisters put aside our petty differences, and we worked together planning Mark's wake and funeral. We showed each other a lot of mutual respect and love, which helped us cope with the hurt of losing Mark. And, I was so proud of my children (especially my daughter, Angie), and my nieces and nephews. For those of you who have not attended a Native American wake and funeral, there is a lot of work that needs to be done prior to the services. Our children are all young adults, now, and their help in getting ready for the wake and funeral was invaluable. They did a lot of the legwork for us older ones. I have to say, they respectfully listened to us elders and did what we asked them to without complaint. In spite of burying my beloved younger brother, Mark, it was a good weekend in some ways.</font></p>
<p><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1em"></font></p><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1em">Now on the first of every month, when I pick up a rose and go out to my son's grave, Joel's grave, I will be taking two roses with me -- the second one will go on my younger brother's grave.</font>]]></description>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p>If you are in a leadership position, whether on a tribal council, serving on a tribal board, or a CEO, you always have to be aware of liars and the lies they will tell you.<span>&nbsp; </span>It is very easy to be fooled by their cowardly lying tactics because they are so good at them.</p>
<p>In tribal politics, liars have an advantage over honest tribal members.&nbsp; Liars are better politicians because they have no shame or pride as opposed to&nbsp;honest tribal members.<span>&nbsp; </span>Liars are able to schmooze tribal leaders (CEOs, tribal board members, and tribal council members or members of their family) without batting an eye; even though they may not like the tribal leaders they are schmoozing.&nbsp; On the other hand, honest tribal members have a hard time schmoozing anyone - well, because they are honest.<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>They can't bring themselves to act insincerely.</p>
<p>Is it a form of lying when a liar schmooze's a tribal leader?&nbsp; I think so.&nbsp; First, he or she is not sincere when they are schmoozing a tribal leader.&nbsp;<span>&nbsp;</span>Insincerity is a form of lying.<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>A schmoozer will probably make a lot of flattering comments that they don't mean to a tribal leader.&nbsp; They will laugh at&nbsp;jokes that they don't think are funny and give the impression they really admire the person, when they really don't.&nbsp; In addition to lying, this type of behavior is also called deceitfulness, false pretenses, and hypocrisy.</p>
<p>Ask any former tribal council member or former tribal board member and they will tell you, they don't have as many friends (schmoozers) and not nearly as many people coming up to them and telling them how terrific they are&nbsp;as they did when they were elected/appointed to a tribal official position.</p>
<p>So let's say you are a tribal leader, and there is a big fight in one of the tribal organizations.&nbsp; At a social event, one of the individuals (let's call her Ann) who is on the losing side of the fight, makes it a point to say hi to you and your spouse.&nbsp; Ann has never made any attempt to talk to you&nbsp;or your spouse before.</p>
<p>At first you may think it is no big deal because this has happened many times ever since you became a leader. <span>&nbsp;</span>However, half way through the event, Ann walks over to your table and strikes up a lively conversation with you. &nbsp;She is very animated.&nbsp; She hangs on your every word.&nbsp; She laughs at all your bad jokes.&nbsp; She constantly praises you, and she agrees with everything you say.&nbsp; During the course of the conversation, she hints at the problem she and her cronies are having with other tribal members.<span>&nbsp; </span>When you remain noncommittal, she moves on to your spouse and visits at length with her.<span>&nbsp; </span>When you and your spouse return home that night, your spouse immediately begins to tell you about Ann and the problems she is having with some no good, crooked, mean tribal members who she works with and could you help her out?</p>
<p>What would you do?<span>&nbsp; </span>After all, Ann is your constituent, and she has every right to come to you for help.</p>
<p>Before you answer the question, let me tell you a true story.<span>&nbsp; </span>A few years ago, a friend of mine told me Duke (not his real name) told her that I was not as good of a politician as I thought I was.&nbsp; Duke was referring to a couple of issues that did not go the way I wanted them to.<span>&nbsp; </span>Unknown to Duke, I was pleased that he viewed me as an unskilled politician.<span>&nbsp; </span>Here is why...</p>
<p>Although the correct definition of a <b>politician</b> or <b>political leader</b> (from Greek "polis") is an individual who is involved in influencing public decision, in Indian Country, the title of politician immediately conjures up an image of someone like my fictional characters, Joe, The Tribal Worker, or John, the Tribal Board member.&nbsp; <span></span>Both Joe and John are unethical, cowardly, and have no loyalty to anyone except to themselves, and they will make up any lie to get their way.<span>&nbsp; </span>This is how many tribal members view their politicians.<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>So, I was glad I was not identified as a good politician.</p>
<p>Let me get back to my question: What would you do if&nbsp;a tribal member who had never made any attempt to make small talk or to socialize with you in any way all of a sudden treated you like you were his or her long lost friend, simply because you were&nbsp;in a leadership position and he or she wanted your help?</p>
<p>Here is what I would do - nothing.<span>&nbsp; </span>Why?<span>&nbsp; </span>Because I do not like to be taken for a fool!&nbsp; If that person thought I was dumb enough&nbsp;or gullible enough to fall for insincere flattery, than they do not know me very well.</p>
<p>On the other hand, if a person came into my office or approached me in a sincere, honest respectful manner and told me of his or her concerns, I would take the time to listen closely to his or her concerns.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, many tribal leaders are too cowardly and/or unethical to worry about doing the right thing when a liar comes to them and tells them nothing but lies.<span>&nbsp; </span>Instead, they weigh the liar's political clout against the political clout of the individual(s) the liar is complaining about.<span>&nbsp; </span>If the liar has more clout, tribal leaders often audaciously promise to support the liar&nbsp;without regards to fairness or worry that they might be taking action against someone who is innocent, or that a leader's&nbsp;support for a liar might not be what is best for the organization and/or tribe.</p>
<p>So tell me, are you the kind of leader who will listen to and support a liar?</p>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p>What happened to pride, honor, and the ability to stand up for one another for the sake of just simply being Indian?</p>
<p>I was against the Fighting Sioux nickname and logo before I attended the University of North Dakota.&nbsp; While a student there, I observed it didn't take long for Indians indifferent to the nickname to realize what I already knew, that there is no sincerity behind the honor and respect the nickname and logo are supposed to represent.</p>
<p>As a doctoral student at UND, I tried very hard not to be drawn into discussions about the Fighting Sioux issue.&nbsp; I learned early on those types of discussions didn't resolve anything, so I usually kept quiet when the subject came up.&nbsp; However, occasionally a comment would be made where I just had to respond.</p>
<p>I remember vividly a class where a couple of Native Americans were arguing with several non-Indians about the logo.&nbsp; One non-Indian scornfully asked, "Why do you guys always blame us for something that has happened 150 years ago?"&nbsp; Interrupting him, I replied, "Because you are doing the same things to us today that was done to our ancestors 150 years ago."</p>
<p>One of the "things" I was talking about is the divide and conquer tactic that works so well with some Native Americans.&nbsp; In 1887, the Dawes Act was passed because of this tactic.&nbsp; Many of our ancestors were against the Act, but unscrupulous officials promised more annuities, education, etc., to gain support.&nbsp; This divided our ancestors.&nbsp; The Act passed resulting in over 80 percent of reservation land being "sold" to non-Indians.&nbsp; The promises made were forgotten, and many of our ancestors starved.</p>
<p>The same old divide and conquer tactics that have historically worked so well against Indian people are now being used on Standing Rock.&nbsp; It is my understanding that six of the eight districts on the reservation have overwhelmingly voted against the logo and nickname.&nbsp; Now Tom Iron, who is known to represent the Ralph Engelstad Arena (REA), and his followers are attempting to divide the tribe by collecting signatures to override the people's wishes. <br /><br />The Standing Rock Sioux Tribal Council's official position has been against the nickname since 1992.&nbsp; It reaffirmed that stance in 1997, 2001, and 2005.&nbsp; Ironically, Tom voted against the name in 1997 and 2001 when he was on&nbsp;the council.</p>
<p>One aspect&nbsp;bothers me&nbsp;most with divisive strategy.&nbsp;&nbsp;Tribal members have to know full well that they are being patronized; yet, they choose to cooperate with the REA.</p>
<p>It is amazing how people can disguise their perception of the truth.&nbsp; What do they expect to gain?&nbsp; Paid tuition for their spouses, children, and grandchildren?&nbsp; Free Fighting Sioux shiny leather jackets?&nbsp; A chance to stay in nice hotel rooms and receive a significant travel allowance?&nbsp; Is this why they fail to see - or worse, choose to ignore -- how the issue is dividing people from and within respective tribes?</p>
<p>This isn't even politics anymore.&nbsp; It is just&nbsp;plain old, "Take advantage of the Indian."&nbsp; It is a matter of a few trying to exploit our weaknesses with bribes of freebies and promising the spotlight.&nbsp; Gifts and freebies are not always opportunities!&nbsp; Apparently, non-Indian logo advocates believe if you give an Indian gifts and freebies, he will eat out of your hand, do anything, sign anything.</p>
<p>The old "divide and conquer" mentality is as active today as it was 150 years ago.</p>
<p>Why doesn't Tom Iron and his band of followers get a petition that has some significance and real-life meaning for tribal members?&nbsp; It would be nice if they fought so hard for and carried around a petition for more jobs for tribal members, more housing, better health care.</p>
<p>This vote is about a name that will not improve the quality of life for even one tribal member.</p>
<p>I am not against this issue simply because I am Indian.&nbsp; I am against this issue because exploiting my tribe, my people, and my culture for the sake of a collegiate hockey team is simply wrong.</p>
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            <description><![CDATA[<b>Note: This blog was first published August 4,2008 but in response to a request, and because I believe that courage is needed more than ever in our current environment, I am re-publishing it today.</b><br /><br /><div class="asset-content">

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            <p>Our
ancestors could not have survived without courage.&nbsp; They needed courage
in battle, courage in hunting, courage in enforcing tribal laws and
customs, courage in facing the elements, and courage when making
decisions that would impact the well-being of the entire tribe.</p>
<p>A man could not be a successful hunter, scout, warrior, and leader
if he did not have courage.&nbsp; Courage was important in the roles women
played in tribal society as well.&nbsp; Although an enemy war party might
strike at any time, the women would leave the shelter of the village
and go pick berries and other vegetables, haul water, and do other
tasks.&nbsp; They had to have the courage to turn their sons over to an
older relative as they became of age to become a warrior.&nbsp; Finally,
they had to have the courage to stand quietly as their young sons went
on the warpath for the first time.</p>
<p>In all Native tribes, courage, whether it was moral or physical, was
essential.&nbsp; Native American Indians honor courage/bravery.&nbsp; Here is an
excerpt from Dorreen Yellow Bird's column in the Grand Forks Herald
titled, <em>Tradition, ritual at a solder's funeral.</em></p>
<p><em>In the 1870s, a Hidatsa man called Scar Face went up north with
six warriors and ran into a larger group of enemy Crees.&nbsp; The Crees
were behind a wagon and shooting at them.&nbsp; The Hidatsa man knew it was
death for them all.&nbsp; So he ran low, zig zagging toward the Crees.&nbsp; This
gave the rest of the band a chance to find cover.&nbsp; He was killed, but
he Crees, who usually scalped their enemy, didn't scalp him.&nbsp; Instead,
they brought out a white Hudson Bay blanket - prized during that time -
and laid him on it.&nbsp; They honored him because he was brave, Mandan
said.&nbsp; That is true of all Indian people:&nbsp; "We honor bravery."</em></p>
<p>Another example of bravery, here is a story about&nbsp;a father who was
willing not to plead for his son's innocence, but to take the
punishment meant for his son:</p>
<p><em>TICHOU MINGO, an Acolapissa Indian of the Osage nation, and
their most expert hunter, killed a Choctaw, 1756.&nbsp; The French demanded
his death.&nbsp; His father arose in council and offered himself in his
son's place, in a touching plea, at once accepted.&nbsp; My son is dying
valiantly, but since he is young and vigorous, he is more capable than
I to feed his mother, his wife, and four small children.&nbsp; He must live
in order to take care of them.&nbsp; I am at the end of my life.&nbsp; I have
lived enough.&nbsp; I wish that my son may live to be as old as I am so he
can raise my grandchildren properly.&nbsp; I am no longer good for
anything.&nbsp; A few years more or less will make no difference.&nbsp; I have
lived like a man; I want to die the same way.&nbsp; That is why I am going
to take the place of my son.</em></p>
<p>Is fear a new Indian tradition?</p>
<p>How could I propose such a thing when this Tribal Leaders Institute is based on my tribe's proud tradition of courage?</p>
<p>Here's why ...&nbsp; One of our favorite tactics to accomplish our goals
is to use fear rather than fairness and decency.&nbsp; We organize family,
friends, and attack anyone who disagrees with us to frighten them into
giving in to our demands.&nbsp; We use fear to the extent that most tribal
employees do not speak up when they see someone committing a wrongful
act, because of fear.</p>
<p>Everywhere we look, we see the results of fear.&nbsp; Policies and
procedures are ignored.&nbsp; Nepotism and favoritism is rampant throughout
our work places.&nbsp; People are fired without due process.&nbsp; We have a high
unemployment rate, yet a huge number of our jobs are filled with
non-Indians, and/or non-tribal members.&nbsp; Tribal members and tribal
leaders alike are afraid to speak up due to fear.</p>
<p>Gus Lee and Diane Elliott-Lee view courage as so essential to leadership, they wrote a book entitled, <em>Courage: The Backbone of Leadership</em>.&nbsp;
They found that we tolerate unethical acts at work and look the other
way when we observe character failings because of our lack of courage.&nbsp;
The Lees also say courageous leaders inspire ethical behavior from
their workers because they first require it from themselves.&nbsp; Great
leaders from Aristotle to Sir Winston Churchill deemed courage "the
first of all human qualities."</p>
<p>Our ancestors were prideful people.&nbsp; They would give up their life
to prove their courage.&nbsp; Little Crow, at the beginning of the Great
Sioux Uprising, told his warriors, although he believed going to war
would mean the death of all of them, he would join them on the warpath
because he was no coward.</p>
<p>We need tribal workers and leaders who are proud to be known for
their moral courage as opposed to known for their ability to ride the
fence.&nbsp; Which reminds me, I remember a tribal member who served&nbsp;on the
councils for many years, yet I never heard him/her say "yes" or "no".&nbsp;
He/she always avoided&nbsp;a direct answer.&nbsp; I don't know, maybe that
individual is proud of avoiding giving a direct answer.&nbsp; How about you?</p>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">I was so mad yesterday (January 27, 2010) when I left the <b>North Dakota</b> <b>High School Activities Association </b>meeting,<b> </b>I was beside myself.<span>&nbsp; </span>There were several reasons why I was mad with the first being our school just lost a close vote to have the ban on post-season play lifted on our high school's basketball team.<span>&nbsp; </span>Now our student athletes will be denied an experience of a lifetime - competing in a district tournament with the possibility of competing in the regional and state basketball tournaments as well.<span>&nbsp; </span>This made me so angry, I decided to sit down and write this blog. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Our superintendent, our principal, our tribal council secretary, and I presented testimony.<span>&nbsp; </span>Our rational for lifting the ban on our basketball's post-season play was our students didn't do any wrong, so why should they be the ones who pay the penalty.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">A lively discussion ensued, and after the comment session was over, a motion was made by the superintendent from Devils Lake to lift the ban.<span>&nbsp; </span>When the vote was called for five NDHSAA board members voted to lift the sanction, and six voted against lifting it.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As I sat and listened to the discussion by&nbsp;NDHSAA board members as they decided our fate, one thing became clear.<span>&nbsp; </span>They were disgusted with the unethical acts of our former athletic director, and their contempt for him came through via several veiled comments.<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>It is my opinion that is what turned the tide against us and caused us to lose the vote by one board member.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As I said, I was mad when I left the meeting, but I wasn't mad at the NDHSAA board members who voted against us.<span>&nbsp; </span>I was mad at the one person who put our school, our students, in this predicament in the first place - our former athletic director.<span>&nbsp; </span>"There is only one person (former athletic director) responsible for this," I told no one in particular after the meeting.&nbsp; "It is because of him, and no one else, that our basketball team cannot play post season," I said as I continued to vent.<span>&nbsp; </span>"He cheated not once, but twice, and that is why we lost the vote," I said.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Those who are familiar with my blog, and/or my courses, will probably say, "There he goes again..." when they read this sentence:<font style="FONT-SIZE: 1.25em"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 0.8em"> <em><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Cambria"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 1.25em">"Among the Dakotas lying and stealing from other tribal members was a capital offense. &nbsp;A person who was capable of lying was believed to be capable of committing other cowardly crimes against the tribe and was put to death to prevent the evil from doing more harm.&nbsp; If a person stole from another tribal member he was forever after called Wamanon (thief) and this distinction followed him for the rest of his life. " - Charles Eastman, Dakota 1858 - 1939</font></span></em></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The more I research and write about ethics, the more I see the profound wisdom in Charles Eastman's words.<span>&nbsp; </span>Let's apply his wisdom to our former athletic director's actions and see if it fits:<span>&nbsp; </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><i>Athletic director admits to tampering with documents to change student eligibility -- after he is caught he resigns leaving others to clean up his mess and face the consequences of his unethical acts -- his supporters attempt to blame others, which leads to arguing and fighting among tribal members -- school forfeits district, regional, and state trophies won two years ago -- </i></b><b><i>fighting and arguing among tribal members and school employees continues -- </i></b><b><i>school's reputation is tarnished to a point where the appeal to lift the ban on post season play is denied -- our student athletes will be denied a chance to participate in the district and possibly regional and state tournaments which could have been the experience of a life time for them</i></b>.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Yup, I would say it fits. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As usual it is the young and innocent who suffer the consequences.&nbsp; Hmmm, I see now why Charles Eastman said, <font style="FONT-SIZE: 1.25em">"<em><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Cambria">A person who was capable of lying was believed to be capable of committing other cowardly crimes against the tribe and was put to death to prevent the evil from doing more harm.</span></em>"</font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Now I am sure there will be some individuals who still idolize our former athletic director and will stand by him... and that's fine with me as long as they do not try to put the blame on any one else. &nbsp;His unethical behavior has brought enough anger, sorrow, sadness, disappointment, and fighting to our community.&nbsp; We don't need anymore.</p>
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